How Does Neuroscience Affect Your Relationships?

What is the most foundational component that affects your relationships?

Trust.

Yeah, I’ve written many times before about it and it is equally important now.

Trust is the foundation for every relationship, in every area of your life, including your relationship with yourself.

The only way to create a more satisfying, fun, fulfilling, and successful life, is by building incrementally higher levels of trust every day.  This is especially important if you have an intimate relationship with a partner.

I’m going to share a basic understanding of neuroscience, which can allow us to have a simple, understandable dialogue about how you can make this work for your benefit, in all of your relationships – personal and professional.

The neuroscience behind this

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Do You Play These 6 Chords To Make Your Relationship A Classic?

At Connections Coffee House in Sangudo, Carol regularly arranges for musicians to perform evening shows. Naturally, there are wonderful songs filled with beautiful chords, and many of them are about relationships. Most times, we have the extreme honour to host these talented people at our home – to provide them with accommodations and meals untilContinue Reading

How To Get De-befuddled: And the results when you do

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Punishment By Love

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When Life Sucks …??

Ever felt stuck in your life, not sure what to do or where to go? Maybe even now? I don’t mean that you don’t have things to do. Most people I know share with me that they are incredibly busy. What I mean is that what you’re doing just doesn’t feel meaningful, purposeful and contributing inContinue Reading

100% Responsibility + 0% Excuses = Accountability. Doesn’t It?

Responsibility and accountability are more than Interesting words; they are principles of life, whether it be in your professional or your personal life. You might be thinking, “Principles? What d’ya mean by principles, Dan?” I invite you to read on because there is a link to a great video that ties this together with anContinue Reading

Bragging? Maybe, But The Point Is…

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Get-Out-A-Town? Isn’t It Time For You?

OK, be honest with me.  When was the last time you and your mate took the time to get away from home for a few days – just to reconnect? It is so important to leave your regular distractions, and also to make the time to just have some fun. Check this out. When areContinue Reading

Reflections of Gratitude

Ever stopped to notice the amazing things that happen, and to really appreciate them? Examples: I arrived at the manicured and decorated farmyard about an hour prior to the wedding ceremony. As a Marriage Commissioner in Alberta, I like to be early and to help with any last minute details. The bride’s parents were fretting.Continue Reading